Growing up isn’t how you act physically. It’s how you feel internally. You could be the wildest person yet the wisest you will ever know. If you don’t feel like keeping a straight face every time you meet a stranger just to seem tough, then don’t. It’s all just pretense. If laughing out loud at what someone you barely know said is what your first instinct was, then laugh and spread your positivity. If you want to talk to someone, why wait, go make your move. If you want to sprawl into the comfort of a couch after having had a hard day, you don’t have to sit crossed leg with a straight back just to give somebody the impression of you being ideal in your conduct. If you want to tell someone something about yourself even tho you don’t really know them well, tell them. Embrace realism. Come undone. Growth is real when you sans the idea of charades and facades. Growing up is freeing yourself from conventions and building wisdom thru your vision. If you ever hesitate, go with what you really want, trust me everyone deep down knows what they want. Do what you WANT to do and what makes you feel comfortable. If the world judges you for being you, you don’t need the world. If they were to respect you, they’ll do that even when you are sitting in your pyjamas and if it’s not there, you could clad in the wealthiest brands and it’ll be all the same for them. Live beyond conventions. Those who can sense maturity and see growth will search for it inside you, not in your appearances. Don’t in any case compromise with what you feel right just to be directed by those who have ideologies to achieve appreciation and not happiness. Do what gives you comfort. What makes you feel real. Laugh when you want. Get drunk on happiness. Celebrate your uniqueness. Just don’t hold back on anything you want only to have something that isn’t deserving of you. When people judge you and ask you to “grow up” just because you are having fun, remind yourself that you don’t have to seek validation from anyone who doesn’t value individualism, for you are in the least wise enough to be real to yourself. You aren’t immature or unprofessional. You just choose to be unfaked.
inspiring✌
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Thank you!
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I would like to read more….. probably , on a different topic….
Good start 👍
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Thanks!
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Too good . Inspiring 🙂
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Thanks a lot!
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Really nice… It was quite impressive….
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Thank you so much!
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Pre-mature. Authentic. Elevation to positivity. Good start! Good job!
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Obliged. Thanks!
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Really Inspired 😄…good work ✌🏻️
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Thank you!
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Woww u have some great thoughts girl 😍😍
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Thank you so much!
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Great thoughts and this is my opinion too.😉
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Thanks!
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Keep up the good work Anisha✌
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🙂
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Marvellous . It brilliantly captures the exquisite joy of being yourself.
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Thanks! Well being your own self and unfake is what I endorse.
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Thank you!
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It was very good an inspiring article. Keep it up, you are a good writer…👍😀
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Thanks a lot!
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Wow*creppy smile*I really really do respect you, you know? You’ve got your own blog!!! It’s amazing
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Go get lost with your creepy smile! Thanks a lot!
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Very inspiring…waiting for more…keep going!!
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Thank you 🙂
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i love your writings 😍😍 …waiting for more inspiring thoughts beautifully written as this one 😚. Keep going .👍
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Thanks a lot! This encouragement means a lot 🙂
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This is the kind of blog, i have always been waiting to read..
Your content drag me from the outer world to the inner most self of my soul..
And now i badly want to write something really natural..really REAL!
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Thank you so much for reading it 🙂
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Very good work anisha…very original and something new and inspiring…keep up the good work✌
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Thanks!
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Nice words and good quote from Marc Jacobs. Also lovely cover image
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Thanks and thanks! 🙂
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Thank you and glad to know this 🙂
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